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    Dr L When has asking a solo mum how she got herself into the position she finds herself in become denigrating?

    ‘She got herself’ – Doogie – Why is it all her fault? How does a woman become pregnant? Who plants the seed? A woman cannot become pregnant unless a man plants that seed.
    So if it was just a casual coupling or if he didn’t want to have children it is his responsibilty to make sure that his partner does not become pregnant.
    OK, mistakes happen, and if he was a responsible person he would make sure HIS child did not have to go without. He should be MADE to contribute toward the upkeep of that child.

    How many men just walk away from their responsibility. It would be interesting to know what the sum would be if somehow it could be worked out how many men have not paid anything towards the upkeep of their children.

    How about a married woman, with school age children, whose husband walks out to be with another woman. Did she ‘get herself’ in that position?

    You say “Whose business is it but hers” – No Doogie – please – It is THEIR business – hers and HIS.

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    Yes you are right but remember she is the ultimate burden barer when things go pear shaped. The females future is entirely in their own hands if they don’t want to go down that road.

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    lilith7 You aso are jumping over a Taranaki gate into an area out of context of the topic

     

    I don’t believe I am Doogie. It was you who said that she’d ‘got herself’ into this situation was it not.

    I’m just trying to understand why you think that, & why you want all the detils.

    There’s a parent with a child or children in need of help. Regardless of circumstances,that is their present situation & I cannot see what possible difference knowing all the details is going to make.

    Thankfully,in reality it doesn’t & those in need are helped.

     

    And they’re not expected to live as nuns,either – or monks,if male.

     

     

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    In this day an age Val, with STD’s etc ….you betta make sure who your screwing with!

    Val, your second paragraph, first sentence. …”casual coupling”… says it all for me!  And expect the Health , Education etc for pick up from your lax of parenting! Not you per sa.

     

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    In this day an age Val, with STD’s etc ….you betta make sure who your screwing with!

    lol – in my dreams 😆  😆  😆

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    The Maori party policy on water usage has garnered no comments from the right wing supporters and yet they are even more draconian than the Labour plans.

    Must be because it is a coalition partner of National that induces this silence.

    That said the Maori Party are aligning themselves with the centre so they can go with either Labour or National after the election if they hold onto their seats.

    That could make them king makers in place of Winston.

    the permutations get more and more interesting.

    Cheers 🙂

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    Lilith
    I asked Doogie why he wanted in information too but he didn’t answer me either.

    Maybe he doesn’t want the information himself but perhaps he could explain what he expects a government department to do with the information should it be required to ask for it.

    Cheers 🙂

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    Hero42,

    Is it enough to pay out a benifit, no questions asked because of privacy, the reason why not naming the father is okay.

    Is it not a moment to reflect and impart deeper thought in society over all in these matters.

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    There are many reasons why mothers don,t name the fathers, rape, incest  to name but two Doogie.I know women who have been placed in this invidious position too by manipulative control freaks of men.

    Dr.Livingstone
    Peoples Republic Of Christchurch

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    Strangerontheshore “One only has to see the vengeance on how Hero replies, for one.”

    How very apt you should say that. Do you recall that Hero42 previously posted on July 7 in the You Know You Are In Christchurch When…… thread, page 12 “Funny how bullies often claim it was only a joke and the victim should lighten up.”

    That sounds awfully like Hero42’s thinking. He can dish out as much nasty stuff as he wants, but woe betide anyone bullying him.

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