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Proven Techniques to Make Your Wife Enjoy Sex

Sex is an important part of any marriage. This is an act of love where two people get closer physically and emotionally. If your sex life is not enjoyable, conflicts may arise within the marriage. To be able to enjoy sex you must both achieve orgasm, but not necessarily always at the same time. Most women find it hard to get an orgasm during sexual intercourse and sometimes fake it because they don’t want to hurt their husband’s feelings or come across as a bad lover. But it is unfair for women not to achieve the same sexual satisfaction that their partners are getting. As a husband, of course you want to make your wife enjoy sex and achieve orgasm. 

Achieving sexual satisfaction will add spice into your marriage and will make the relationship stronger. To make your wife enjoy sex, of course you need the necessary skills. If you feel your wife is not achieving orgasm during sexual intercourse, do not get frustrated because lovemaking is an art and giving pleasure to a woman in bed can be learned.

Here are some tips to make your wife enjoy sex:

Find out what she prefers during sexual intercourse.

Sometimes women cannot enjoy sex because there are things that are uncomfortable for her. For instance, there are women who do not want to have sex when the light is on. There are sex positions that she is not comfortable with but she is afraid to tell you. Bottom line is find out what makes her comfortable to forget all her inhibitions and just give in to have an intense lovemaking with you. If she is comfortable, you can make your wife enjoy sex with you.

Make her feel sexy and gorgeous.

Sometimes women are hesitant to give their all during sexual intercourse because they are not motivated emotionally. Women have insecurities about their body and their looks. Make her feel loved, beautiful and let her know that she is the sexiest woman for you. You will definitely make your wife enjoy sex if she feels loved and adored.

Oral sex and foreplay.

Women need more foreplay to be able to enjoy the sexual act with you. Men easily get aroused, but with women it is different. That is why it is important that you know how to touch her on the right places and give longer oral sex for her to get aroused and be ready for you. To make your wife enjoy sex, do not rush her and let her enjoy your caress and touch. 

Published 25th Mar 2010

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by donr1 21st May 2011 I am a bit syrprised that these articles are on here. I would ahve thought most of us over 50 would know all this sex stuff by now. And if not have lead very quiet narrow lives.
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