Why great date nights start at fifty

Have you ever looked at a young couple in love and thought ‘wow remember what it felt to be them?’ We all have. But have you considered that perhaps date nights are better when you’ve been around the ‘date-night-ringer’ a few times? When it comes to date nights, sometimes it can feel like too much effort to plan something more special than the regular kebab and Netflix night. However, date nights are hugely beneficial by boosting feelings of connectedness, facilitating communication and putting fire back into your relationship.

So what are some of the big benefits and ways to make the most of date night when you’ve hit the 50-mark?

Reconnect on the regular

After many years together, your relationship probably needs a little bit of TLC. Regular date nights are more than certain to give you the personal space needed to discuss things that are important to the both of you. Aside from doing something you both enjoy, you’ll be with enjoyable company – your better half. By setting this time for your partner, you’re reaffirming your feelings for them and prioritising your relationship over other less important life commitments.

No children to worry about

One of the more obvious reasons date nights are better when you’re 50+ is you don’t have to worry about the kids! It’s likely your children have grown up and left home – which means, you’re able to go out on a spontaneous, romantic date night. One of the main reasons couples don’t go out for regular date nights is because of their kids. Thankfully, this is one of the concerns you don’t need to consider.

You’ve tried the traditional – now it’s time for something interesting

We can often get too comfortable with the same restaurant, but doing something unfamiliar will rekindle that adrenaline you may have experienced earlier on in your relationship. Whether you’re going on a jet boat, a unique glamping experience or even dining in the dark – you’re likely to be open to the most quirky and out-there date available. Wacky and different = more fun and lasting memories together.

As we said in the title – great date nights start when you’re fifty. The abundance of date packages, restaurants and experiences makes planning one all the more exciting. So if you’re looking to strengthen your relationship, add value to your lives and enjoy all that New Zealand has to offer – regular date nights could be just the option for you.

What are you doing for your next date night? Need some help? We’ve falled for Our Date Nite, your date night concierge. Not only do they have brilliant date packages, they will also organise it for you! All you have to do it sit back and take the credit.