- #862151wandakr June 15, 2013 at 7:06 am
Well first of all, I think, we think that men think we think about them. All the time. Well maybe not all the time. But most of the time.
And I think – WRONG!
wandakr#862153wandakr June 15, 2013 at 10:18 am
I think women who drive daily to work and back or pick and drop off kids at school or just generally drive regularly do a lot of thinking.
I know I do.
I guess my main thinking is around family…..and all those dynamics that make it what it is.
Replies: 12700Anonymous June 15, 2013 at 10:27 am
….like what am I going to cook for tea tonight!:P#862157wandakr June 15, 2013 at 10:58 am
I think about that too – and I think about if I should cook it for everyone because it’s an expectation or should I just prepare what I feel like for me and my mokopuna – like maybe a sandwich or noodles or pasgetti on toast.
..and let the 73 year old and 34 year old kids fix a feed for themselves.:roll:
..and a lot of the time I think are they waiting for me to come home from work with dinner….
wandakr#862159wandakr June 16, 2013 at 4:26 am
I think some men need to grow up – especially when it comes to sports!!
wandakr#862161joybelMemberMember since: November 2, 2006
Replies: 33302joybel June 16, 2013 at 10:56 am
Imagine if we were programmed like a TV with pressure points in our wrist and we could switch off thinking at will. Once I have a bee in my bonnet I keep coming back to the nagging thought even though I try to switch the thought off. Thinking can really get ones knickers in a twist and the way a negative feeling can cause ones heart to drop or beat faster and you can’t close the door on it can make us despair at time. Apart from taking a sleeping pill to blot out thought we just need to analyse and act on them as they sure as heck aren’t going anywhere. Sweet thoughts and dreams everyone.
Joybel#862163wandakr June 24, 2013 at 4:35 pm
One thing I do think a lot about is just how right Maya Angelou was in writing about how phenomenal most of us are…:D
“Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I’m telling lies.
It’s in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman
That’s me.” ………….yeahhhhhhhhh!!:D:D:D
wandakr#862165wandakr August 31, 2013 at 12:53 pm
…..and then I think about all those long pauses between thinking because our busy lives intervene….then suddenly there’s this beautiful Saturday and I’m thinking…what a beautiful day!..:D
wandakr#1739099sophie98MemberMember since: December 3, 2019
Replies: 9sophie98 December 16, 2019 at 2:06 am
I think that many men still think that woman is the one who have to take care of kids, cook, clean the house. I say NO! We are not a robots and we are not created to do this things. Everything should be balanced so not only women should take care of such things. We are just a people, the same as men are.
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