- #1724829lufflyoneMemberMember since: July 11, 2019
Replies: 0lufflyone July 11, 2019 at 3:04 pm
My Partner lies and Protects another woman, Protects her by deleting her messages and his messages between them, phone calls etc. If theres nothing going on why would those mesaages need to be deleted Ive asked…..
His response is because he doesnt need the earfull from me.
I recently blocked her on his phone only to find a couple of days later shes unblocked and im blocked? After asking him what thats about, he genuinely had no idea about it.
Please someone give me some advice as to what these are to mean..
Im pretty certain that I already know because of the way I feel about it. But id feel better knowing im not crazy and that someone else sees it the same maybe.#1724880missmelMemberMember since: February 9, 2019
Replies: 1missmel July 12, 2019 at 5:56 am
I’m a bit worried for you, because in a relationship, trust is the most important thing. If he has something to hide, then I would be very concerned. Maybe he is not cheating, but it sounds to me if he is communicating with another woman, the chance that he is is probably quite likely.#1725324diney4469MemberMember since: September 24, 2016
Replies: 1diney4469 July 17, 2019 at 8:50 am
You partners response to your question is emotional abuse. If he has nothing to hide then everything should be open & transparent. listen to your intuition/instinct, it is screaming the truth at you.#1725325TailsNZMemberMember since: October 31, 2010
Replies: 64TailsNZ July 17, 2019 at 8:59 am
even if it is just a friendship and not sexual, i would be concerned if he saw her as his closest friend and not you his wife. as to whether he is having an affair, may i ask if you are both still sexually active together? if not, then that suggests he is meeting his needs elsewhere. i am sorry, but if this was me i would be genuinely concerned as you are.
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