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My Partner / Relationship-Spouse Advice

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    Profile photo of lufflyonelufflyone
    Member since: July 11, 2019
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    My Partner lies and Protects another woman, Protects her by deleting her messages and his messages between them, phone calls etc. If theres nothing going on why would those mesaages need to be deleted Ive asked…..

    His response is because he doesnt need the earfull from me.

    I recently blocked her on his phone only to find a couple of days later shes unblocked and im blocked? After asking him what thats about, he genuinely had no idea about it.

    Please someone give me some advice as to what these are to mean..

    Im pretty certain that I already know because of the way I feel about it. But id feel better knowing im not crazy and that someone else sees it the same maybe.

    Profile photo of missmelmissmel
    Member since: February 9, 2019
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    I’m a bit worried for you, because in a relationship, trust is the most important thing. If he has something to hide, then I would be very concerned. Maybe he is not cheating, but it sounds to me if he is communicating with another woman, the chance that he is is probably quite likely.

    Profile photo of diney4469diney4469
    Member since: September 24, 2016
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    You partners response to your question is emotional abuse.  If he has nothing to hide then everything should be open & transparent.  listen to your intuition/instinct, it is screaming the truth at you.


    Profile photo of TailsNZTailsNZ
    Member since: October 31, 2010
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    even if it is just a friendship and not sexual, i would be concerned if he saw her as his closest friend and not you his wife. as to whether he is having an affair, may i ask if you are both still sexually active together? if not, then that suggests he is meeting his needs elsewhere. i am sorry, but if this was me i would be genuinely concerned as you are.

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