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Muzza - Gidday Everyone

Read about me here

It’s been a long time since we last talked.  What a roller coaster ride I have had over the past 8 months


I guess I had better explain.

As many of you will have noticed I am no longer with SolidGoldFM. It was my own choice, the pressure of early mornings probably got too much for me, and last August I had what could only be called A Major Meltdown. If you ever been through something like this, you’ll understand.

I locked myself away for two days and couldn't answer the phone or the door, and just felt that my life had been a total waste of time and probably should be ended.

Eventually my good friend Pam Corkery popped in and immediately contacted the people at North Shore Mental Health Services for Older Adults, after several hours talking with the team they decided that I was in a state of depression.

I was put into a respite house with some amazing folk in Albany, where I was looked after by Vicky and her family. It was a real experience; they chatted away, fed me and generally eased the stress out of my life.

I still take medication , and will do so for the rest of my life I also attend regular counselling and am told I am Bipolar2 which is apparently the one without the huge highs...:)

But to top all that off, I arrived home, after I was diagnosed as being well again, only to find that my unit had been burgled, a 42 inch Plasma, my PS3, a laptop, a sound system and my MY SKY had all been flogged, funnily enough I handled that reasonably well, after using the cognitive therapy I had been taught by my Councillor Beryl Fabian (I hope this doesn't conflict with medical ethics etc..

I am well now and feeling great, it’s been up and down.

Then there was the dreadful news from Christchurch and losing four good friends in the CTV building I am feeling so sorry that I couldn't get down and help out, as Christchurch was the place where I made my name and shared so many fun times with so many loyal listeners

I want to thank all my friends and family who stood by me during this painful period, esp. Pammy, David, Robin and the team at North Shore Hospital and, many friends on my Face book page Muzzashow...So that is where we stand now Ladies and Gentlemen. Right now I am looking for a job, so if there's anything out there let me know, maybe I could be a clown, perhaps an extra on Shortland Street, a Fawlty Towers type Waiter 'though I don't look the Manuel type:)' I do good phones but have had my share of call centres, how about a film critic, a town moaner, or a party organiser, or better still a talkback host.

Now to something on the bright side (no pun intended)... I was watching one of the news channels last night and saw an amazing story from Dubai, which is hosting the world football cup in the next few years, (I forget what year it is). But the real story is that the powers that be are worried about the hot desert sun beating down on the crowds at the Dubai Football stadium, so the Texperts have been developing an artificial cloud. Basically, from what I can gather, it’s a remote controlled floating platform filled with helium powered by solar panels that will provide shade from the suns burning rays, and as the sun moves the Cloud will move with it, so far it’s only on the drawing board, but a prototype is not too far away. Keep watching this space folks.

Did you see that ridiculous couple on Close up tonight (23rd March) who have developed a big brother type device that can monitor kids Mobile calls? A damn good idea. But my problem was the 5 year old who had her own mobile phone, any parent who bows to a child's technological demands need to have a big stick stuck right up where the sun doesn't shine. The people who developed this made for good laugh fodder for a group of us watching Close Up, what a dreary couple, they used every buzz phrase known to modern man riddled with cliché after cliché, not one simple phrase that remotely raised the possibility that they are anything other than a pair of Politically Correct robots. I know it’s a changing world but can’t we just back to the KISS principle... Keep it simple stupid. The same goes for the headmaster at Hastings Boys High, what happens when next year’s Head Boy drinks himself over the limit? The Head Boy isn't one who made a bad decision, it was The Headmaster.

Toodahloo
Muzza

 

Published 29th Mar 2011

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by Hip Nana 6th April 2011 Welcome back Muzza, what a rough ride you have had, so glad to hear that everything has slotted back into it's proper place. That's the worst thing about depression none of life pieces seem to fit. I also found that segment on monitoring childrens cell phones disturbing and more than slightly ridiculous. We seem to be far to concerned with being PC, there are parents that are more concerned in being buddies with their children instead of teaching them with love that there are rules and boundaries that they need to learn to live happily in this society. All of us have to live by certain rules and a child who has never been taught this fact of life is in for a bumpy ride. KISS !!!!!!!!!
by judi013 6th April 2011 Hi there and welcome back. Yes, it's so important for us to accept help when it is offered (and needed) and how lucky we are to have supportive friends to give that help. Love the idea of the cloud in Dubai. Perhaps it can be adapted to keep the rain off one when watching a match at the Westpac Stadium in Wellington.
by vick009 6th April 2011 Hey Muzza, I'm here,and now accepted I have right of passage now being over 50 ! Pleased I was part of your roller coaster ride in the last 8 months or so. Lets see what the next 8 months bring on lifes journey :)
by LoisAlex 6th April 2011 Hi Nuzza, so good to hear from you, I have missed you on the radio, you have such a knowledge of music eg lost 45's and looney tunes, as well as hearing you on the radio, welcome back to the real world and good luck to you, Lois from Birkenhead by lois 009
by juli025 7th April 2011 Muzza........you are the best of them all on radio...always been a real pleasure to tune into your slots......would be great to have you back on radio sometime. Good luck, and you have a good life in whatever you choose to do...
by PeaceNZ 17th May 2011 Welcome back Muzza. Been there done that.. Have the scars and Tee-shirts to prove it. You are NOT alone.. Keep listening to your friends and taking the Meds..There is a light at the end of the tunnel and it dosn't have to be another train..it's up to you and your mind set. We have all have missed you on Solid Gold. The breakfast slot just isnt the same without you and the lost 45s. I look forward to hearing you on the radio again soon dont forget to tell us the station so we can change chanels. :) keep up the blog..PeaceNZ
by nona001 23rd May 2011 Hi Muzza, Good to read your notes & know that all is well with you again. I do miss you on the radio. I remember listening to you back in the Christchurch days. I did wonder what had happened to you. Keep up the good spirits, you will find a job soon, theres somnething out there foe everyone. Take care Nona
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