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Tips to Become a Better Lover
So you want to enjoy great sex and you want your partner to think of you as a great lover? Well the good news is that anyone can improve their sex life in the bedroom and the ten tips enclosed will help you and your partner enjoys great sex.
Let’s look at them.
1. Respect
Show your partner respect. It’s a known fact that women need much more mental stimulation to enjoy great sex than men and they need to be relaxed and feel desired and wanted.
So, be a considerate lover and make your partner feel beautiful and wanted. They will then relax and let themselves go which is the key for them to enjoy the experience to its fullest.
2. Foreplay
There are many erogenous zones and it is important to explore them all not just the obvious ones! Here we will give you just 3 examples, but there are more that you can target. The neck – The nape of the neck is one of the best to target and will have your partner moaning with pleasure and wanting more so target it quickly.
The buttocks – What women is not sensitive about her behind? Target it and tell her it’s beautiful, not only is it a physical turn on, it’s a mental turn on to and women love having their bottom complimented.
The inner thighs - Highly sensitive and a great area to tease as your partner will be expectant of what happens next!
3. Best Sexual Positions
The best sexual positions are not the most complicated in fact, if you read the great works of erotic literature such as the perfumed garden or the Karma Sutra, you will see there are really 4 positions that give the maximum in satisfaction and you don’t have to be an Olympic athlete to do them.
We have written about them frequently, they worked thousands of years ago and still work today – great sexual positions don’t go out of fashion!
4. Control Your orgasm and last longer
One of the main problems men have is they come too quickly and this leaves their partner unsatisfied. However, there is one trick that you can learn that will help you control your climax and it is simply this:
SLOW DOWN YOUR BREATHING
Breathing quickens and as it does so you climax, but by slowing your breathing down you are fooling your body you are not ready to come and delaying the act.
We have written on techniques for doing this in other articles so look them up and learn the techniques their guaranteed to work.
5. Communication and complements
Sex is communication and should not be done in silence.
By complimenting and making noise not only can you learn about what your partner likes and doesn’t, you can compliment and express the pleasure you are having to. The spoken word adds a great deal too great sex, so make noise and communicate!
6. Sensuality & Variety
You can enjoy great sex by setting a mood and adding plenty of variety. For example you can add in some sensual oils to appeal to the senses or you can add some massage in before sex. Setting a mood helps relax you both and appeals to the mind which then ensures that the physical act is enjoyed even more.
So there you have it, ten tips that can help you enjoy better sex or even great sex with your partner – have fun.
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