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Noeline Levinson - Could the Alexander Technique be like 'A Breath of Fresh Air'?

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Alexander was called the ‘Breathing Man’ as we all know breathing is pretty important to staying alive, but do any of us do it? No, not really. Well, okay we might do a bit just the bare essentials but we do not breathe enough or easily.

Watch yourself during your day and notice how many times you hold your breath. Every time we do an action we tend to hold our breath. When we are scared we hold our breath. All body workers know that we hold all our fear in our breath. What on earth does that mean? The body stores memory in every cell. If we are often frightened or angry we could store that emotion in our body, in the actual cell memory. Truthfully we store all our emotions in our cells, but it is the fearful and angry emotions that become toxic for us to hang onto.

Let’s briefly go back to the beginning.  Fredrick Leboyer was a French Obstetrician who was the first to write about the gentle birth process. He advised mothers to give birth in dimly lit rooms and have gentle or no loud music playing.  From reading his book one can ascertain that he understood that the transition from being an amphibian to an air breathing human was traumatic.  He suggested that the baby be placed on the mother’s belly directly after birth while the cord was still attached. This gave the infant a chance to take small sips of air while still being supported by the umbilical cord.  This allowed the infant not to be scared of the burning sensation that the new air made into the virgin lungs.  Thus the baby was able to take it’s time and grow accustomed to the sensation of breathing air.  Only then was the cord cut and the baby was breathing independently.  However, how many of us were born and instantly given a smack on the bottom, to the thrill of all around, hearing the new born howling.  We humans… Anyway, this traumatic entrance into air breathing is so frightening, that the infant unconsciously registers that breathing burns, It is not good and so will do as little of it as possible.  Many of us have to relearn how to breathe and to release the fear that is stored in the breath. This all sounds very odd I am sure, but many studies have been done and much research has gone into our breathing or lack thereof. I often remind my clients to breathe and they laugh realising that they were holding their breath without them being aware of it.

My teacher used to say: Breathe at least 3 times a day, we would all laugh but it was not until I became a teacher that I found the relevance to this joke.

The issue to take into consideration is that we are very brittle when we are tense. We know that when a drunken person gets hit by a car they have an uncanny ability to survive. When we are relaxed we are less likely to get injured.  When we are breathing we are relaxed.  As we get older we tend to be more prone to injury of one kind or another, so it is all the more reason to pay attention to ones breathing.

So all of you who are reading this today, take a deep breath, and watch your breathing throughout the week.  Take time to smell the roses, be in the moment, and BREATHE, BREATHE, BREATHE.

Step lightly, be spritely. www.alextechnz.com

 

Published 16th Dec 2011

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by ElKiwiGrande 2nd April Just love the way you described the cell memory of emotions, either good or bad. As with all unconsciously learned behavior, we have to consciously unlearn them to remove them. Only then can a new path forward be built. Thanks, Chris
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