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I know this thread is a bit old now, but I've just joined and I have to ask why it is that when a woman says she doesn't enjoy sex we assume the problem must be hers? Mimi may have medical issues, but there is also a possibility that he's not that good at it, that the relationship is in a rut, or that Mimi doesn't convey/doesn't know what floats her boat. Even if women enjoy sex, it is not quite the same priority that it is for men, which can lead to frustration on both sides. Men often feel loved and intimate after sex, whereas women don't necessarily get that from sex unless shown in other ways. A return to a bit of romance and doing other things together might help - even a walk on the beach, or a shared wine. Might I also be so rude as to suggest taking matters into your own hands (literally), or spice things up with some adult toys that are primarily for your pleasure rather than his.