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Blank 30 Sep 2008 5:28pm #1
offline solar.sense75

Member since 30 Sep 2008

Member from Auckland Central

Posts: 4

Hi all, check out this website:
www.silentmonitoring.co.nz

My 14 y.o is spending so much time in his room with the computer...

Suitable for all parents of teenagers, and the best thing about it.. you don't need to be a computer wiz smile

9005-joy_child 10 Oct 2008 9:19am #2
offline Joybel

Member since 02 Nov 2006

Member from Linwood

Posts: 23602

That is a very good practical way to monitor what that teens are watching solar.sense75. But should young kids have the freedom to have a computer without any censorship of its content in their bedroom? They have too much of their own way as it is and the family seems to have become a house with non paying boarders in it with very little input coming from these indulged darlings except when they put their hands out for the latest i-pod or Nikes. Thank heavens they are not all like this and there are sensible parents who don't buy the absolute privacy cry.

Blank 03 Nov 2008 9:21am #3
offline reine

Member since 20 Apr 2008

Member from Christchurch CBD

Posts: 725

to many things are happening to young kids with their computers in their bedrooms.
i think that they should all be in an appropriate place so that you can see what is going on and whats been said to the kids themselves.
i wouldn't allow any child, grd child of mine on a computer where i couldn't see what is going on.

there are so many things in our society today that can be used as an act of bulying and there are things on computers that shouldn't be there, but adults think its o.k.
how many kids have gotten so upset through this type of bulying that have commited sucide and were just to not think of it and just let it pass.
when in today's society are we going to think of what is good for our children and not good for them. it is not the use the kid's have, it's the use they shouldn't be able to get through.
it is time we thought of the next generation, and not what a few perverse people do to spoil things for the rest.

Blank 01 Dec 2009 3:28pm #4
offline Tony

Member since 15 Jul 2006

Member from Woodbourne

Posts: 11

there is a free keyboeard monitor called REFOG, but do you really want to know what your kids are doing, yuck!

23757-Annie_in_the_Sink 03 Dec 2009 7:56pm #5
offline gaye-belle

Member since 28 May 2008

Member from Wrights Bush

Posts: 6027

Hi Tony, spent some time in Woodbourne, while my husband was in the air force, stationed there. wink

Blank 09 Feb 2010 7:25am #6
offline Peter8426

Member since 09 Feb 2010

Member from Andersons Bay

Posts: 7

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